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Women Empower Wednesday: Sub Lt. Atiya Zeeshan

Women Empower Wednesday: Sub Lt. Atiya Zeeshan

Shahadat, a badge of honor

It takes a lot of strength and bravery to be the wife of an army soldier, and much more strength and courage to look forward and build up the endurance for whatever may come up in the life of someone who is busy safeguarding the country. Being the wife or mother of an Army or Navy officer takes a lot of guts. Sub Lt. Atiya Zeeshan is one of the ladies who has been labeled as a “martyr’s wife.”

Life of Sub Lt. Atiya Zeeshan

Lt. Zeeshan Wazir was married to Sub Lt. Atiya Zeeshan two months before he underwent shahadat. Lieutenant Zeeshan Wazir embraced Shahadat in a helicopter crash due to awful weather conditions on 30 August 2018 near Haripur, KPK, Pakistan.

Lt. Zeeshan Wazir

Sub Lt. Atiya was in a lot of agonies at first, but her heart was pleased as well. Her motivation was to be a martyr for Pakistan. And, thanks to her naval family’s unwavering support, she decided to join the Pakistan Navy. Currently, she is a Sub Lt. She has a dream to carry on his legacy, and she is working hard to make that goal a reality.

The constant support for Sub Lt. Atiya Zeeshan

Not only did she have the backing of her military family, but she also had the support of her father-in-law Wazir. Following Zeeshan’s funeral. Her father-in-law urged her to stay strong and pursue her husband’s ambition.

Shahadat – the faith of a Muslim

Muslims believe that Martyrs never die and that they live forever. Zeeshan’s shahadat provides his wife the sort of fortitude that didn’t break her, and she boldly stood up and did what she wanted to do and what was the finest thing to deliver without crying.

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Lt. Zeeshan Wazir has received nothing but affection from the whole nation and his family, from a loving son to an even more loving spouse to a martyr. Sub Lt. Atiya Zeeshan’s tenacity and bravery, as well as his commitment to his mission, have made the nation proud.

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Irfan Junejo receives a shoutout from YouTube for phenomenal content creation

Irfan Junejo receives a shoutout from YouTube for phenomenal content creation

Irfan Junejo receives shoutout from YouTube

Irfan Junejo, a Pakistani YouTuber, has always been praised by his fans and followers for his outstanding work. The well-known YouTuber is now representing Pakistan on YouTube’s official Instagram profile after the American video-sharing and social-media giant praised his work.

“Head to Irfan Junejo’s channel to wander into his cinematic universe,” Junejo writes on YouTube’s official Instagram account. Irfan Junejo and Irfan Junejo 2.0 are Junejo’s YouTube channels. On his primary channel, the YouTuber has over 1.13 million subscribers, while his second channel has 343,000.

Many people rushed to social media to congratulate Junejo on his well-deserved YouTube shout-out along with a follow!

Among those who lent their support to the YouTuber were singer and actor Uzair Jaswal. Fans were also ecstatic about this achievement!

Twitter congratulates Junejo for the shoutout from YouTube!

Twitter rejoices after Irfan Junejo’s recognition from YouTube. A user tweets,

Another user tweets,

Furthermore, another user tweets congratulations,

Junejo getting shoutouts from YouTube’s official account proves that he is indeed the best YouTuber, moreover a prized possession Pakistan has. The standard that has been set by him. No one can reach it.

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After a 17-month hiatus, the 31-year-old announced his return this year. He stated in the video that he will prioritize his mental health over his desire to make vlogs. He said that this was his method of attempting to figure out who he is, and that he needed time to do it.

Congratulations are in order!

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Book Review: We Were Never Here by Andrea Bartz

Book Review: We Were Never Here by Andrea Bartz

If you enjoy reading, you may have read one or maybe two thrillers in your life. However, if you aren’t a fan of thrillers, the book I’m about to review could persuade you otherwise!

I’m the harshest critic of this genre out of all the ones I read. If it isn’t worded perfectly, it makes me bored. However, Andrea Bartz’s thriller We Were Never Here has changed my mind about thrillers. It’s one of the most thrilling storytelling adventures you’ll ever have! As a result, a well-written one is a thrilling journey.

We Were Never Here by Andrea Bartz

We Were Never Here is a thrilling, thought-provoking thriller drama about two ride-or-die best friends who get together once a year for an epic journey. It’s a unique type of friendship that author Andrea Bartz defines perfectly.

This novel is every suspense fan’s fantasy, and it will have you flipping pages well past your bedtime. A novel is full of unexpected twists and turns that will have you foregoing your Friday night plans in order to read more.

 
 
 
 
 
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We Were Never Here by Andrea Bartz Book Review

Kristen, one of the protagonists in the book, kills a guy while on vacation with her closest friend, Emily. Kristen claims she acted in self-defense, but the event seems strangely similar to something that happened last year while they were on vacation together. As a result, Emily begins to doubt her friendship with Kristen and the events of that evening.

Emily returns to Wisconsin after attempting to cover up the crime in order to restart some sort of regular life. However, Emily is thrown for a loop when Kristen shows up and declares her plan to return to the city, throwing her into a tailspin—how is she expected to forget what occurred when she has a daily reminder with Kristen?

Not only that, but Kristen is acting as if nothing has occurred, leading Emily to doubt everything.

Bond between friends!

We Were Never Here delves further into this friendship than only the killings. Emily and Kristen met in college and have remained really close ever since. They have a ride-or-die vibe about them, as though our bond is more important than everything else.

But what happens when they become embroiled in not one, but two murder cover-ups? And how does Kristen manage to act as if nothing happened? They got away with murder not once, not twice, but three times. What effect does this have on a person’s mind? And while their big secrets bind them together, Emily is clearly carrying a heavy burden. Kristen’s odd reaction isn’t helping matters either.

Final verdict

This book is much more than just a murder, it revolves around things that will make you think and wonder what possibly is strong about a friendship? You might want to read it!

 

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Andrea Bartz is a Brooklyn-based journalist and the author of the WE WERE NEVER HERE and THE HERD.

We Were Never Here is a fiction novel written by Andrea Bartz. The story revolves around a murder and two best friends which will lead you to a jaw-dropping end. 

We Were Never Here is a thrilling, thought-provoking thriller drama about two ride-or-die best friends who get together once a year for an epic journey. It’s a unique type of friendship that author Andrea Bartz defines perfectly.

You can order your book online from the Amazon book store. And you can also read it online from Scribd’s digital library. 

Book Ratings 3.6/5
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Hijab is not abnormal: Samaa TV anchor wears a hijab on live show!

Hijab is not abnormal: Samaa TV anchor wears a hijab on live show!

Kiran Naz stands against the statement of Pervez Hoodbhoy

Kiran Naz, a SAMAA TV anchor, wore a complete hijab during a segment of her show 7 Se 8. She emphasized that the hijab never prevented women from participating in society or made them “Abnormal.”

Professor Pervez Hoodbhoy said that women students at Pakistani colleges are no longer “natural” because they wore a hijab, according to the show.

What Pervez Hoodbhoy said about hijab?

Without hiding her face, Naz began her program by recounting how Hoodbhoy, a physicist and mathematician, had helped the country by spending four decades of his life teaching at Islamabad’s Quaid-e-Azam University.

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Nonetheless, he was frequently chastised for his remarks, according to Naz, who added that Hoodbhoy recently made another statement that has generated “an uproar around the country.”

Naz then showed a video clip of Hoodbhoy speaking with News One, a Pakistani television program. He claims that when he first started teaching in 1973, he seldom saw women wearing headscarves in college. However, hijabs and burkas are now common. “A normal girl would be seen only once in a blue moon,” Hoodbhoy says.

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When burka-clad women sat in classes, the professor says, they would scarcely engage in-class activities. “To the extent that you don’t know whether they are present in the classroom or not,” he said.

Samaa TV anchor Kiran Naz wears a hijab in live show!

Naz states at the end of the video that she doesn’t know what Hoodbhoy means, but she feels the hijab is an important part of Pakistani Islamic culture. And she is proud of wearing it. “I don’t wear the hijab myself, but I can’t dismiss others who do,” she added.

After that, Naz says that she would host the rest of the show while wearing a complete hijab. On camera, she wears a black cap to hide her forehead, followed by a hijab that covers her face and shoulders. “Hijab-wearing women are normal in the exact same way as those not wearing hijab,” she says. She stated that her comments or ideas would not alter under any circumstances.

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Women Empower Wednesday: Zahra Yaqoob

Women Empower Wednesday: Zahra Yaqoob

Differently-abled, not disabled!

History has witnessed some of the most outstanding achievements by men and women in due course of time. However, the achievement is even more appreciated if has been addressed with an apparent physical disability. It takes courage for any ordinary man or woman to achieve a feat like success when he lacks at something; it simply requires a passion for a person with a disability to level the fame.

Among them is a woman named Zahra Yaqoob, who, despite her disability, has become an inspiration to anyone who believes that life with a disability is difficult.

Zahra Yaqoob

Zahra Yaqoob, a 23-year-old influencer from Lahore, gives beauty advice on Instagram. The medical issues that this lovely young lady do not stop her from shining brightly like a gem.

When Yaqoob was born, the bones in her legs were broken. Her first days of life were filled with suffering and pain. Doctors told her mother that her bones were weak and that she wouldn’t live long. Yaqoob’s mental development matched her age, but her physical development did not.

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What disease Zahra Yaqoob has?

Yaqoob suffers from an incurable hereditary illness. The bones of a patient with the brittle bone disease are so fragile that they do not grow and can break with only a little strain. Despite her weak bones, she was able to adjust to life. Yaqoob is a wheelchair user who is unable to walk.

Her resilience, courage, strength, and never-giving-up attitude are what empowers us as women. Zahra is an example of never giving up on anything and do whatever your heart says.

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Book Review: Think Like a Monk by Jay Shetty

Book Review: Think Like a Monk by Jay Shetty

Who is Jay Shetty?

Jay Shetty is a host, viral content producer, motivational speaker, and author who has won several awards. Jay started his YouTube channel in 2016 with the goal of sharing wisdom videos. He now has over 20 million followers worldwide and has had over four billion views on YouTube in only four years. In addition, Jay was selected to Forbes’ 30 Under 30 list.

Jay Shetty’s Inspiration behind the book Think Like a Monk?

When Jay was 18 years old, he met a monk who transformed his life. Jay began to redefine success for himself, and he desired to help others. He spent three years as a monk traveling around India and Europe when he was 22 years old. He used to get up at 4 a.m. every day, take cold baths, meditate, and eat. He would meditate for 4 to 8 hours each day. Jay would devote half of his day to personal development and the other half to assisting others. He has now reintegrated into society. He does, however, want to assist individuals in adapting the monastic attitude to modern city life.

Book Review Think Like a Monk by Jay Shetty

The book Think Like a Monk combines deep wisdom with Jay Shetty’s personal experiences. The goal of this book is to assist people in adopting a monk attitude in their daily life. ‘Think Like a Monk’ teaches you how to overcome negative ideas, reach calm, and create meaningful purpose in order to realize your full potential. It might be difficult to adapt monks’ lessons to modern life. Shetty, on the other hand, offers tips and exercises for reducing stress, improving self-discipline and attention, and maintaining relationships in today’s society.

 
 
 
 
 
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How to live life peacefully

The book successfully lays out a route for living a more peaceful and fulfilled life. Furthermore, it is organized into three sections: Let Go (Identity, Negativity, Fear, and Intention), Grow (Purpose, Routine, The Mind, and Ego), and Give (Gratitude, Relationships, and Service).

Monk mind and Monkey mind

Moreover, Jay also highlights the obvious difference between the monk and monkey mind. A monkey mind is one that overthinks and procrastinates, is easily sidetracked by trivial matters, craves immediate satisfaction, is demanding and entitled, is self-centered and preoccupied with multitasking, and is ruled by anger, worry, and fear.

Jay also discusses many unique concepts such as mental traumas, quadrants of potential, the circle of love, double-edged ego, chariot of the mind, and so on.

 

 

Fear, attachment, and control  

Fear stems from a preoccupation with attachment and control, according to Shetty. As a result, detachment is the antidote to fear. Detachment isn’t about owning nothing; it’s about owning nothing. Detachment does not imply indifference to life and the things that surround you. Instead, you should refrain from allowing items to influence your judgments. These are known as “preferred indifferents.” It’s fine if you choose to have these things in your life. To be happy, though, you do not require these things.

In the end, Passion is one of the most important characteristics of successful activities. As a result, Shetty advises readers to figure out what their passions are. These hobbies should be ones in which you have a natural skill and enjoy.

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Jay began redefining success for himself after meeting a monk when he was 18 years old. He travelled to live as a monk in India and Europe after graduating with a 1st class BSc (Hons) Degree in Behavioral Science from Cass Business School, inspired to make a difference in the world.

Jay Shetty (born September 6, 1987) is an Indian-born English novelist, former Hindu monk, and life coach.

As a young guy, he developed the following habits: He left London at the age of 19 to become a monk in an ashram in India. At that young age, he had suddenly recognized that he was seeking something other than achievement or worldly prosperity in life.

They participate in community activities like Mass, prayer, meditation, and service. They also engage in activities that distinguish them, such as exercise, collecting, composition, and cooking.

Book Ratings 4.2/5
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Paying Tribute to Major Aziz Bhatti on his 56th martyrdom anniversary

Paying Tribute to Major Aziz Bhatti on his 56th martyrdom anniversary

Soldiers of a country who fight and die for the defense of their cherished homeland are among the bravest and hardy animals on the planet. Pakistan has had its fair share of wars during the last 72 years. Our history books are now littered with innumerable harrowing, often horrific, but courageous stories of our brave troops. We learn about them from our grandparents, see and read about them in the news, and admire their bravery and grandeur. The tale of Major Aziz Bhatti is one such example.

Who is Major Aziz Bhatti Shaheed?

Major Aziz Bhatti was born in Hong Kong in 1928. He was relocated to Ladian village in the district of Gujrat before Pakistan’s independence in 1947. In 1950, he enlisted in the Pakistan Army and was assigned to the Punjab Regiment.

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He received the Nishan-e-Haider for his valorous acts at the Battle of Burki in the second war with India in 1965.

Major Aziz Bhatti Shaheed

The Story of bravery and endurance Major Aziz Bhatti

Major Raja Aziz Bhatti Shaheed, the receiver of the Nishaan-e-Haider, has such a life narrative. Every man, woman, and kid in Pakistan recognize his name. He is a national hero and an inspirational commander. He led a small group of men in a gallant defense of the Burki sector in Lahore. To illustrate, this happened during the 1965 war with India. Maj. Aziz Bhatti staged a robust, impregnable resistance against the Indian Army while being outmanned and under constant enemy fire. Our hero refused invitations to rest or even meets his family in Lahore and pressed on.

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The day of Shahdat

On 10 September 1965, Maj. Bhatti was on a routine when he stood up from his trench to observe the enemy position despite being warned by the army sergeant to take cover. He moved out of the target– the advice was unheeded by Maj. Bhatti and justified his actions of taking a better view before order the artillery of targeting the Indian Army’s armory. Furthermore, during an intense exchange of artillery fires between the two armies, he was hit by an enemy tank shell and embraced Shahadat. In the face of a furious adversary, the brave soldier stood unfazed and gave his life to defend countless others. Maj. Bhatti was 37 years old at the time of his shahadah.

Nishan-e-Haider for Major Aziz Bhatti

Therefore, soldiers who execute acts of tremendous heroism in the face of extreme peril. Or subsequently who display the greatest level of courage or loyalty to the country in the face of the adversary, are awarded Nishan-e-Haider. Indeed, Major Aziz Bhatti is revered by all Pakistanis for his valor and devotion to the country.

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Women Empower Wednesday: Meet jameela khatoon aka Oil wali Aunty

Women Empower Wednesday: Meet jameela khatoon aka Oil wali Aunty

Day after day, we see and hear about women who are trying to do the best they can for their families and children. They go to great lengths to ensure that they are comfortable and happy. This is the journey of Jameela Khatoon, a strong-willed widow who perseveres in the face of adversity and restores motorbikes.

Jameela Khatoon

On the streets of Karachi, Pakistan Jameela Khatoon is famed for her strength and endurance, even when the temperature reaches a scorching 40 degrees. Mrs. Oil Jameela Khatoon, often known as Mrs. Oil, boldly walks through the male-dominated society every day to provide for her family. Despite several setbacks throughout her life, she never gave up because she had to live today!

Jameela Khatoon

Jameela crouches on the ground, clutching a wrench, and concentrates her focus on the motorbike in front of her almost every day. She appears to be oblivious to the loud and activity around Ranchore Line’s Poonabhai Tower as she loosens engine nuts.

How Jameela Khatoon became ‘Oil Wali Aunty’?

Khatoon claims that her business is her late husband’s sole lasting legacy. When he died of cancer and she lost her adoptive son, Jameela was forced to become the only provider of her family.

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Jameela Khatoon does everything herself, including adding oil to motorbike engines, changing oil, and maintaining them. Her grandson assists her as needed, but she handles the more challenging tasks alone.

Life was easier for her when she had employees. She now opens her business from 10:30 a.m. to 11:00 p.m. and stays open till midnight. Furthermore, Jameela Khatoon claims that customers who come in to have their motorcycles repaired are always kind to her.

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Jameela Khatoon

While Jameela Khatoon has had the good fortune of having her clients appreciate her, women who choose lowly occupations are rarely regarded favorably in our culture. People make it a point to make fun of them instead of supporting and appreciating them for doing their best to manage their homes’ stoves with dignity and respect.

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Sham Idrees accuses a Canadian Cafe for Islamophobia, but is this the entire story?

Sham Idrees accuses a Canadian Cafe for Islamophobia, but is this the entire story?

Who is Sham Idrees?

Sham Idrees was born to a Muslim family from Islamabad, Pakistan, in London, England. His family immigrated to Canada when he was 16 years old, settling in Hamilton, Ontario. Sham started off as a YouTube celebrity in 2012. In 2013, he rose to prominence with his debut album, “London 2 Paris.” The album’s three tracks, “Bolo Na,” “Pyar Hoa,” and “Dil Dil Pakistan,” were successful, with over a million views on YouTube. “Dil Dil Pakistan” was a remix of Vital Signs’ “Dil Dil Pakistan” from 1987. It was also broadcast on a number of Pakistani television stations. Sham has almost 135,000 YouTube followers. He also makes comedy videos and has worked with Zaid Ali and Shahveer Jafry in the past.

Sham Idrees alleges Demetres Oakville management for Islamophobia

Canadian-based blogger Sham Idrees recently alleged that a restaurant’s workers, owner, and management discriminated against his wife because she wore a hijab (headscarf). He posted a video he uploaded on social media with the caption, “They had the worst experience of their life.” The racist servers warned them not to serve individuals like them. Idrees also alleges that a woman called Jessica made racist remarks towards his family’s hijabi ladies. Furthemore, he also clarified that this isn’t only about him being a member of a minority in Canada.

Sham Idrees and his family faces Islamophobic discrimination at Demetres Oakville  

In another video Sham explained the whole scenario that the cafe Demetres Oakville their family of 22 people wanted to sit together as they were with babies too. But it was not only denied but also started harassing and not serving them. He also claimed that we moved the chairs with their permission a woman named Jessica came and said you have to ask the supervisor to move the chairs and tables, eventually denying them the service. One of the workers said to them which say, “It’s always their kind who causes issues.”  

Kanwal Ahmed of Soul Sisters Pakistan tells the other side of Sham Idrees’s story

Kanwal Ahmed of the famous Facebook community group Soul Sisters Pakistan shared the other side of the Sham Idrees Islamophobia incident at Demetres Oakville.

With a caption that says, “If anything it’s Sham Idrees who needs to be unfollowed and banned.” She shares a tweet that Sham Idrees has done a disservice to Muslims in Canada by faking a scenario of his wife being discriminated against for her hijab. This undermines actual complaints of Islamophobia.

Her caption furthermore reads, “Horrific the lengths, this need for constant validation and ego massaging on social media can take people.”

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Kanwal Ahmed Sham Idrees Oakville Demetres incident

She ended it up with a note which says: it appears that they trolled, lied, and defamed a restaurant and its female employee for the sake of depicting themselves right after breaking Covid Protocols and made it sound like it was about race and religion instead. Total exploitation.”

Sham Idrees and Kanwal Ahmed Demetres Oakville

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People who were present allege that they attempted to create a scene and exaggerated it. Not only that, but they also took use of their blogging status to get attention.

The problem of Islamophobia is a sensitive topic and should not use as a card to get attention and public sympathy. What do you think?

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Book Review: Meet Cute by Helena Hunting

Book Review: Meet Cute by Helena Hunting

So, based on the premise, it is assumable that this would be a romance novel in which the love interests’ “meet-cute” played a significant role in them getting together for the first time. Or getting back together for the second time. It was quite startling (however, not disappointing) to find that it only appears briefly in the narrative. And only at the beginning, when the protagonists reunite as adults.

Helena Hunting

Helena Hunting is the author of the bestselling PUCKED series, which has been featured in the New York Times and USA Today. She lives with her wonderfully forgiving family and two fairly intolerant cats on the outskirts of Toronto. She writes a wide range of genres, including romantic sports humor and new adult angst.

Meet Cute by Helena Hunting – Book Review

Kailyn Flowers had not anticipated her first day of law school going from a pep talk. Envisioning success to falling flat on her back hugging her teen idol and fangirling all over him. Sadly for her, this does not turn out to be the case. And the most humiliating moment of her life is not locked up with the key thrown away. Every law school class has her embarrassment, and he likes discussing and competing with her.

The progression of a teenage crush

This novel is so much more than Kailyn’s crush for Dax, a former teenage idol. We have Kailyn, a lawyer who devotes as much of her free time as possible to pro bono cases. (To assist low-income families.) Dax, the heartthrob hunk-like celebrity, went on to study law and become a lawyer. Kailyn’s fascination with Dax’s TV persona takes a second seat to the story’s actual backbone. Which is loved because celebrity meet-cute romances are such a worn cliche these days.

While Kailyn is relieved when she and Dax parted ways after law school, she is disappointed when he shows up in her legal firm five years later. When his parents establish trust for Emme, he joins them.

Kailyn and Dax meet again a week after his parents are tragically killed in a car accident. He’s here to see if Emme’s trust is safe and whether her guardianship is properly put up to safeguard her.

The romantic perspective by Helena Hunting

Even in the face of terrible loss, this is one of those rare romance stories that can exhibit a compassionate romance. While sadness is always present, Hunting takes great care to show how the emotional relationship is more than just one of consolation and pity. There is sexual attraction, an intellectual meeting of minds, admiration, respect, and an adult emotional connection that surpasses the mundane, as well as empathy and concern for each other.

Final thoughts

Meet Cute is a book that will make you laugh and weep at the same moment, sometimes along with the same page. It’s a narrative about compassion and affection, wit and sensitivity, joy and sadness, and everything in between. This is a novel you don’t want to overlook.

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